{"id":5495,"date":"2026-03-30T06:27:59","date_gmt":"2026-03-30T06:27:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/?p=5495"},"modified":"2026-03-30T06:27:59","modified_gmt":"2026-03-30T06:27:59","slug":"the-drawings-i-misunderstood","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/?p=5495","title":{"rendered":"The Drawings I Misunderstood"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"41\" data-end=\"246\">I teach 3rd grade. One of my students always drew pictures of me\u2014big teeth, wild hair, wrinkles. Other teachers joked, \u201cShe\u2019s mocking you!\u201d I laughed it off, but something told me to keep every single one.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"248\" data-end=\"338\">They weren\u2019t flattering. Honestly, some were hard to look at. But I never threw them away.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"340\" data-end=\"399\">On the last day of school, she handed me one final drawing.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"401\" data-end=\"454\">This time, she drew both of us\u2014standing side by side.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"456\" data-end=\"534\">On the back, she wrote: <em data-start=\"480\" data-end=\"534\">\u201cThis is you being nice to me when no one else was.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"536\" data-end=\"568\">I just sat there, staring at it.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"570\" data-end=\"757\">Later, I learned she had been moved between foster homes all year. Nothing in her life stayed the same\u2014except school. And apparently, I was the only adult who smiled at her every morning.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"759\" data-end=\"797\">Those drawings I thought were insults?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"799\" data-end=\"876\">They were her way of seeing me. Of holding on. Of saying, <em data-start=\"857\" data-end=\"876\">you matter to me.<\/em><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"878\" data-end=\"908\">It broke something open in me.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"910\" data-end=\"1058\">We never really know what someone is carrying, especially a child. The smallest things\u2014a smile, a kind word, showing up\u2014can mean everything to them.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1060\" data-end=\"1108\">Now I keep that last drawing where I can see it.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1110\" data-end=\"1179\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">Because sometimes, what looks like criticism\u2026 is actually connection.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I teach 3rd grade. One of my students always drew pictures of me\u2014big teeth, wild hair, wrinkles. Other teachers joked, \u201cShe\u2019s mocking you!\u201d I laughed it off, but something told me to keep every single one. They weren\u2019t flattering. Honestly, some were hard to look at. But I never threw them away. On the last &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5496,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5495","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5495","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5495"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5495\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5497,"href":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5495\/revisions\/5497"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5496"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5495"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5495"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5495"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}