{"id":5893,"date":"2026-04-10T21:14:33","date_gmt":"2026-04-10T21:14:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/?p=5893"},"modified":"2026-04-10T21:14:33","modified_gmt":"2026-04-10T21:14:33","slug":"my-husband-wanted-to-date-other-people-now-he-regrets-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/?p=5893","title":{"rendered":"My Husband Wanted to Date Other People\u2014Now He Regrets It"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"62\" data-end=\"326\">When my husband first suggested an open marriage, it felt like my world cracked in half. He said it casually, like it was a modern solution to a \u201cstale routine.\u201d Either we try it\u2026 or we end things. I loved him, so I said yes\u2014even though every part of me hesitated.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"328\" data-end=\"504\">At first, nothing changed. He went out more, stayed out later, smiled at his phone in ways he hadn\u2019t in years. I told myself this was what I agreed to. That I had to be strong.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"506\" data-end=\"560\">Then, six months later, something unexpected happened.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"562\" data-end=\"588\">I met Ben\u2014his best friend.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"590\" data-end=\"837\">It wasn\u2019t planned. It started as conversations, then coffee, then laughter I hadn\u2019t felt in a long time. Ben listened. He noticed things. He cared in a way my husband hadn\u2019t in years. Before I knew it, I had crossed a line I never thought I would.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"839\" data-end=\"942\">When my husband found out, he didn\u2019t yell. He didn\u2019t leave. He just\u2026 changed. Quiet. Distant. Watching.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"944\" data-end=\"986\">But everything truly fell apart last week.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"988\" data-end=\"1058\">Ben sat us both down and confessed something neither of us saw coming.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1060\" data-end=\"1178\">He said he had been in love with me long before the open marriage even began\u2014and that this wasn\u2019t just casual for him.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1180\" data-end=\"1239\">For the first time, my husband realized what he had risked.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1241\" data-end=\"1281\">And now\u2026 he wants to close the marriage.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1283\" data-end=\"1336\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">But I\u2019m not sure I still want the same thing anymore.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When my husband first suggested an open marriage, it felt like my world cracked in half. He said it casually, like it was a modern solution to a \u201cstale routine.\u201d Either we try it\u2026 or we end things. I loved him, so I said yes\u2014even though every part of me hesitated. At first, nothing changed. &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5894,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5893","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5893","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5893"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5893\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5895,"href":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5893\/revisions\/5895"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5894"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5893"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5893"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/storypulls.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5893"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}