Margaret had rejected every marriage proposal I made during our four years together.<\/p>\n
She was seriously ill with a rare autoimmune disease and feared that marrying me would leave me drowning in medical debt after she died. So eventually, I stopped asking.<\/p>\n
Then, one week before a dangerous surgery, she suddenly took my hand.<\/p>\n
\u201cMarry me.\u201d<\/p>\n
She admitted she might not survive and said she wanted to die as my wife, not my girlfriend. We held a tiny hospital wedding surrounded by family, friends, doctors, and nurses.<\/p>\n
Six days later, Margaret went into surgery wearing her wedding ring.<\/p>\n
She never came back.<\/p>\n
Weeks later, her family lawyer called.<\/p>\n
\u201cI think you should sit down.\u201d<\/p>\n
He revealed Margaret had inherited part of a family trust worth more than $400,000. She couldn’t freely access most of it while alive, and if she died unmarried, the money would return to other relatives.<\/p>\n
But if she had a husband, he could inherit it.<\/p>\n
Then he read her final message.<\/p>\n
Margaret knew I’d emptied my savings, sold my car, and sacrificed opportunities while caring for her. She wanted the money to give me back the future I’d sacrificed.<\/p>\n
\u201cBuy the house,\u201d she wrote. \u201cGet the dog. Travel somewhere without a hospital cafeteria.\u201d<\/p>\n
Years later, I did exactly that.<\/p>\n
I even named the dog Stanley\u2014after her IV pole.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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