My wife came home from her annual girls\u2019 spa weekend acting like a completely different person.<\/p>\n
Claire barely ate, stopped reading bedtime stories to our daughter, avoided the kids, hid her phone, and slept in the guest room for six straight nights.<\/p>\n
I became convinced something terrible had happened.<\/p>\n
Finally, I called her sister Megan.<\/p>\n
She told me Claire had secretly taken most of our kids\u2019 college money to help their younger sister Rachel through serious financial trouble.<\/p>\n
I was shocked\u2014but relieved. Money could be replaced.<\/p>\n
Then I called Rachel.<\/p>\n
She laughed.<\/p>\n
\u201cPaul, I\u2019m fine. I\u2019ve never asked Claire for money.\u201d<\/p>\n
My stomach dropped.<\/p>\n
Rachel revealed Claire had actually been unusually quiet during the spa trip and kept disappearing to make phone calls with Megan.<\/p>\n
When I returned home, Claire was waiting on the porch.<\/p>\n
\u201cJust tell me the truth,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n
Her face crumpled.<\/p>\n
\u201cThey found a lump. The biopsy came back.\u201d<\/p>\n
Everything suddenly made sense.<\/p>\n
Claire hadn\u2019t emptied the college fund. She had withdrawn money from our emergency savings because she didn\u2019t want treatment delayed by insurance.<\/p>\n
\u201cI made Megan lie because I wasn\u2019t ready to tell you,\u201d she sobbed.<\/p>\n
She admitted she\u2019d slept separately because she knew she would fall apart if I held her.<\/p>\n
I wrapped my arms around her.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou should have let me be scared with you.\u201d<\/p>\n
Six months later, Claire was responding to chemotherapy\u2014and we had finally learned that fear was something we needed to face together.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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