I Gave My Daughter a “Forbidden” Name, but I Refuse to Rename Her

A 26-year-old new mom kept her baby’s name secret to avoid family drama—after a relative once stole one. But in the delivery room, announcing “Annabelle”—honoring her husband’s late grandmother—sparked chaos.
Her dad loved it; her mom went pale, claimed illness, and fled. Days later, mom ghosted her daily calls. The new mom asked sister Emily, still at home, what’s up. Bombshell: 10 years ago, Dad had an affair with a woman named Annabelle. Mom stayed, but the name triggers deep pain—now they’re fighting, and Mom’s packing to leave.
Dad rushed over, confessed everything, and begged: “Change the name—for your mom.” She refused: “It means everything to me and my husband.” He yelled—until Emily kicked him out.
Now home with her newborn, she’s torn. Mom’s distant; Dad’s guilt-ridden; family’s fracturing. “I’m not changing Annabelle’s name, but this is tearing us apart.”
Clarification: Annabelle’s a placeholder. Real name’s short (3 letters, no nicknames); middle name’s Mom’s—unchanged.



