My parents are in serious debt and had to sell their home, leaving them homeless. I asked my husband, a landlord, to let them stay in one of his rentals for free until they recover. He refused, saying, “This is my business, I’m not a charity! They have to pay full price.”
The next day, my mom revealed he’d called her first, offering a place but only at full rent—essentially rubbing their poverty in their faces. He’s so insensitive; he could’ve at least discounted or given a few free months to help.
Was he right to demand full price? – Stacy D.
His lack of generosity is concerning. Thank you, Stacy, for sharing. If your husband won’t help your parents despite his comfortable income from other rentals, it’s a red flag. This stinginess could worsen, denying future needs because “he’s not a charity.”
Make him aware of his mistake. Separation might force realization—if roles reversed, you’d help his parents without hesitation. Such behavior undermines a happy marriage, especially with kids in mind.
