While chatting with a friend at a restaurant, a man sat next to me and said, “Before you get your hopes up, I have a girlfriend.” Smiling, I replied, “Before you get your hopes up, I have dreams bigger than this conversation.” Surprised, he listened as I explained my focus on personal growth—building my career, traveling, and prioritizing mental health. I was there celebrating a new chapter, not seeking romance. My friend, who’s seen my journey,
smiled. The man softened, admitting, “I guess we assume others want what we do.” He apologized, and we had a deep talk about boundaries, self-worth, and misreading situations due to insecurities. Leaving the restaurant, I felt empowered, reminded that my value isn’t tied to others’ assumptions. Standing firm in who I am and my dreams felt powerful—because my aspirations always come first.
