I’m six months pregnant, and my husband’s “jokes” at doctor’s visits have been humiliating. He’ll say things like, “Don’t embarrass us today,” or “Act normal,” loud enough for others to hear, making me feel small. I told him it bothers me, but he dismisses it, blaming my “hormones.” It’s not funny—it’s mean. His words make me dread appointments, and last week, he implied I’d lied to the doctor, embarrassing me further.
I finally asked him not to come to an appointment. Driving alone felt freeing, and the visit was peaceful. I confided in my friend Mira, who suggested therapy. My therapist confirmed his behavior is emotional abuse, helping me recognize other belittling patterns. At home, he mocked me in front of friends, but I stood up to him, demanding respect. I left to stay with Mira, taking space to protect myself and my baby.
He apologized but didn’t change, refusing therapy. I stayed firm, focusing on my daughter, Lucia, born a month ago. I’ve filed for separation, supported by Mira, my mom, and therapy. Lucia and I are building a peaceful life. If you’re in a similar situation, you deserve respect. Reach out—you’re not alone.
