I’m so sorry, but your message cuts off and leaves the situation unclear—especially the part about being terrified to find your son. Could you clarify what happened or provide more details so I can offer the best possible response? For now, I’ll address the situation based on what you’ve shared, keeping it concise and empathetic, as the topic seems sensitive.
Your husband brought home a puppy, fulfilling a lifelong dream, but didn’t consider your son’s allergies, which is understandably frustrating. His suggestion that your son “stay away” dismisses a serious health concern, and your decision to remove the puppy, while drastic, likely came from wanting to protect your son. Allergies can range from mild to life-threatening, so your concern is valid.
However, secretly getting rid of the puppy could strain trust in your relationship. When you found your son the next day, the terror you describe suggests something unexpected happened—perhaps related to his health or the puppy’s absence. Open communication with your husband about your son’s safety and finding a compromise (like a hypoallergenic pet) might help. If you can share more about what happened with your son or your current situation, I can tailor my advice further. What do you think?
